You could spend a fair amount of time in Bangkok and remain unaware of the world that exists in the red light districts, but in certain areas ignorance quickly disappears. I won't go into much detail beyond what I personally witnessed, and I'll even spare sharing some of those due to not wanting to describe some of what took place. Instead, I'll share what a typical time of outreach looks like.
We go to the bars in the mid- to late afternoon, because the bars aren't too busy and the servers will have time to talk. They typically are applying make-up and getting ready for the evening. We'll go and buy something to drink, and offer to buy them a drink, too, as they earn a certain percentage made off of the drinks purchased. If we don't buy something the owners wouldn't want us there, and the servers would have no reason to spend time with us. The system is set up in a way that highly encourages these servers to spend "additional time" with their customers outside of the bar. Many massage establishments and even salons offer other "services" so you have to know what to look out for if interested in going to such places.
We offer the women (girls may be a more accurate term) alternative work at Samaritan Creations (SC), where they can make jewelry, dolls, and apparel. They hope to offer more work in the future, as finances allow, such as selling baked goods. Let me share my experience.
"Go-go" bars are those with dancers |
Our first evening out we met a server named Maggie (not really her name) who is 18 years old and has worked in the bars 2 months. She seemed to enjoy talking with us and we offered her another job if she was interested along with telling her why we were there in the bars: Jesus Christ and His offer of salvation. We gave her contact information for SC and told her we'd try to meet her again.
A couple evenings later we went out again and saw Maggie. She seemed excited to see us and we sat and talked with her more. However, the conversation eventually grew sad. The previous night she had gone out with a customer and made extra money, and as more potential customers sat in the bars she was losing interest in us. The lure of money and the possibility of marrying a wealthy foreigner had a higher priority.
The area we spent most of our outreach in |
The complexity of the situation makes it difficult to adequately explain in a concise way. I'll provide further examples in the coming days and would ask for your continued prayers. You're welcome to check out more of my day to day activities at https://docs.google.com/document/d/1U7sk8yy0Lma0JqVzCoP_MKEA9wsRcFo_wAGXamoi3Kc/pub, which I will do a better job of updating!
*Pray that God would redeem those working and paying in the red light districts.
*Pray that we would be a light in the darkness - even in our hotel! We're staying in the same place for the whole month so we've had a chance to meet many of the staff. We will even try to meet with one of them to teach English. So many people here have never heard of Jesus and how His sacrifice allows us to have a relationship with God.
*Pray for our health and protection.
Blessings.
CT
Casey, I'm so encouraged by your words. God's doing amazing thing there and I know that he will stop. It's really sad to hear about Maggie but love is patient and love is kind. It might be just the start but I know God will do amazing things in her life. Thanks for sharing, Casey!
ReplyDeleteP/s: When are you getting back? I would love to talk to hear about your trip after you get back.
Hey Minh, thanks for the comment! I'll be getting back to the US on July 24th and will be in Minneapolis for a couple days.
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